Throughout history and life, the humans connect with the evolution chain for billions of years before, to the following infinite possibility of the development. We shoulder the responsibility, showing the process of natural history and propelling historical progression. The burden we are taken on is heavy, but meanwhile, we translate each dream into reality subsequently. Therefore it is necessary for us to make sure our precise position and make an effort of self-improvement, so that we are able to realize the blueprint of our dream and embrace a colourful life.
However, recently, the majority of people suffer a great failure in understanding themselves. That’s why it is essential for us to orientate accurately, avoiding not only blind confidence and arrogance, but also the inferiority.Knowing oneself in psychology refers to people's judgment of their own conditions, qualities, abilities and other aspects. Ancient Greeks once regarded "knowing oneself" as the highest wisdom of human beings.
How many hours do you sleep every day? How can you help yourself reduce stress? What is your best subject? What is the best way to learn for yourself? While thinking about these problems, may I ask myself, what kind of positioning do I have? What position do you put yourself in? Only by accurately recognizing oneself and finding one's own position can one flexibly face all kinds of sudden situations in study and life and be calm and unhurried.
To treat ourselves well, first of all, we should face ourselves objectively. People living in this world must have a correct understanding about themselves. They need to know what kind of advantages or drawbacks they have. They can change those shortcomings through their own efforts, which shortcomings still needs some helps to deal with, all needs to have to position yourself accurately, just won't get lost themselves in future study and life.
Secondly, you need to enjoy yourself. Confucius said: the gentleman is open and poised, the petty man is often unhappy and worried. From a psychological point of view, it is that the gentleman can be self-acceptance, cheerful mood; And the petty people can not joy themselves, often from the bitter, the since of crisis, the shame, inferiority and confused. Pleasure is a state of mind, not directly related to the objective environment. Some students often complain about miserable conditions, feel too much homework, and some students will reflect on where they do not do well enough. We can't change the environment, but we can adjust our perspective .
Also , control yourself intellectually. Cherish yourself, in a kind of physical and mental harmony of life, this harmonious state mainly depends on our own adjustments. People not only need to know their own instincts, but also to be able to control them , so we have to learn to look at things rationally, and can’t indulgent our behavior.
Finally, to improve ourself, actually means to pursue a meaningful life, which is to achieve a fairly complete state of life. Self-improvement is a process of self-adjustment and self-shaping, because we show our weaknesses only in practice and the direction of self-improvement , therefore we can obtain the social standard to measure our own value, develop individual talents according to the needs of social progress.
俞敏洪曾两次参加高考，但是却因为英语成绩不及格而落榜，他认识到了自己的问题，并给自己定了一个小目标：英语要考及格。后来，经过他的不懈努力，不断完善自己，顺利考入北京大学，并且拿到了93分的优异成绩。Yu Minhong took the college entrance examination twice, but failed because of English. He realized his problems and set a small goal for himself: to pass the English exam. Later, through his unremitting efforts, he constantly improved himself, got 93 points of excellent results and successfully entered Peking University.
Chaisi dalai once said that man knows the universe, but does not know himself. The ego is farther away than any planet. We need to know ourselves and give ourselves an accurate positioning, and then constantly improve ourselves, the idea firmly to the extreme, then fearless of storms. Keep moving forward bravely! What awaits us is a better tomorrow!